Are you aware that a mistaken belief in your mind is perceived as reality and that your actions and results are also wrong in return? A mistaken belief makes us lose the real perspective.
Whenever we start a project we must firmly believe in it, analyze the consequences and risks, assess it and, if we decide to do it, launch ourselves in full to reach the goal.
Throughout our lives we make mistakes many times when making decisions, but it’s important not to desist and keep trying, as have relevant characters who have also stumbled, but because of their tenacity, work, creativity, order and struggle, got up and achieved success.
The competition is increasingly aggressive but if we want to be inside the “market” we must try harder every day. In the last decade, technological progress has developed at a vertigo speed and if we don’t learn how to reinvent ourselves and recycle us we’ll be relegated to the background.
We need a social, family and work balance, and we cannot abandon our affective part in order to be more effective. When we’re organized, the hours in a day are enough to cover every aspect, and the combination of these three factors will help us grow personally and professionally. There is a saying that “You should never go to bed without having learned something new“. Be sure that enriching yourself culturally will make you feel good about yourself, as well as providing you with better opportunities in all areas.
A good advice is to dedicate part of our day to reading. If you don’t have the habit of reading, try to acquire it – and the sooner the better. If you’re an enterprising person, you could use the biography of someone who reached the top from scratch, as it could give you a clue as to how and where to build your future, as well as motivate you to achieve it.
Once you’ve defined what you want, start to build the path that you have marked. You will find yourself with endless difficulties, good moments, average and bad. The latter must be given more energy, to be able to move forward. Whoever arrives to the destination is because he had more strength to get up after each fall.If the project you started was due to a mistaken belief, and you don’t get the results in a prudent marked period, you should stop and reconsider.
Learn to see without distortions. If you only see what you want to see, you don’t observe what the world has to offers you. How many of the situations that you think are impossible in your life are only products of your beliefs? Have you ever thought about what you’ve stopped doing or done wrong by believing you weren’t capable? Apply this personally, professionally, with your family, and furthermore into your life in general.
It’s important to believe that you can, because if you think you’re not worthy enough or you don’t deserve it, you won’t strive and your actions will be inadequate. When you convince yourself that your own success or own failure depends on you, you will not possibly believe that you are not capable, and you will surely be right. If they told you that you couldn’t, erase those words from your mind as it is time for you to prove that you’re capable of that and MORE.
This post was originally posted on the ‘Retos Femeninos’ blog
Sylvia is a multi-award-winning communicator, publicist, lecturer and spokesperson for women’s rights in different national and international forums. As an entrepreneur, she is the founder of the strategy of comprehensive communication for Women’s Challenges, focused on the personal and professional growth of thousands of women, and on the Enough of violence against women initiative, among others. From 2007 to date, she presents the “International Women’s Day” event at the CDMX, Monterrey and Guadalajara and from 2018, every year, in a different city, to cover the Mexican Republic. She is an ambassador for Vital Voices for her work promoting women’s rights.
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